The Signs She’s Interested in You – The Ultimate Guide

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There is a clear definition of failing at “game”, or not living up to the proper standards of a man. It does not involve getting laid X number of times, having the most beautiful girlfriend in your city, or other unattainable, outcome-dependent goals. Failure in this sense is allowing opportunities to pass you by; or […]

A Guy’s Guide to Handling Conflict

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In my life I’ve noticed two extremes: men who compulsively avoid conflict, and those who seem to seek it out. Obviously, neither strategy is very good. For this article, I’d like to talk about the types of conflict we encounter in our day-to-day lives, and how deal with each situation. This way, you’ll be better […]

The Real Reasons for Being Rejected by a Girl

To be rejected by a girl is not a fun experience. Nobody likes rejection, because nobody wants to be reminded, directly or indirectly, of inferiority. This is the one human element that seems to cause the most damage, enough so that children rejected from an early age by peers or parents often grow up to […]

How to be Authentic While Adapting Your Personality

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Wow, this is a big topic. But, it’s a cornerstone of self-development. Many fields have a “hard problem” to contend with. Medical science, for instance, sees consciousness as a “hard problem” because it’s extremely hard to reduce sentient awareness based on brain function. Another “hard problem” is gravity, as nobody fully understands the multidimensional ways […]

Escape Friend Zone Part 2: Orbiters

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As promised in my article the other day, I am going to talk more about the dreaded “friend zone”, how to escape friend zone territory, and most importantly how to eliminate needy “orbiter” behavior. In addition, I wanted to mention how I’ve had a lot of feedback about the “Dark Virtues” mentioned on my previous […]

Get Out of Friend Zone – The Virtues of Lovers vs. Friends

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In a future article, I will talk about some myths of the “friend zone”, and why it’s not necessarily THAT bad to be a woman’s “just a friend”, at least not as bad as a lot of dating coaches claim it is. But for now, I want to talk about the core differences between friends […]

Am I Creepy? Five Signs You Are

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There is no worse thing for a man to be called than “creepy”, because it’s a representation of just about everything we don’t want to be: anti-social, weird, a stalker, unattractive, and so forth. Unfortunately this word gets tossed around a LOT, especially by catty, immature girls—or guys who are trying to step on you. […]

How to Ask Her Out on a Date

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“Oh my God, Sarah at work…I’m so in love with her, I mean, I really like her. So I need to just ask her out, right? That’s what works in the movies. But, I don’t know how to ask her out. Oh, God, please help me, Internet!” Actually, before you go down this grim path, […]

A Major Sticking Point: Male Insecurity

The sooner you can free yourself from the chains of male insecurity, the sooner you can begin to enjoy life without the nagging bondage that accompanies almost every action performed by an insecure man. This is the first article of the Developed Man project, and it’s the first important topic that every man should try […]