My Experience Among True Beta Males Has Terrified Me

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Before I begin my little story, let me make it clear – I’ve always been skeptical of the red pill alpha / beta dichotomy. Not everybody can fit into these slots so easily. An “alpha” may have beta qualities in some situations, and a “beta” may be alpha in other areas. We have the ability to slide in and out of these roles (I talk about this in a 2014 book “Alpha Confidence for Men and Women” you can grab on Amazon for a couple bucks).

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When Beautiful Women Are Not Beautiful (Calling Out All Simps)

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Today, I fear that we live in the age of simps. These are men who beg, grovel and plead for female attention. It has become so widespread in cities like Los Angeles that even completely average women can acquire 4,000, 5,000 or more Tinder matches in a short amount of time. This gives women a […]

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Spiritual Philosophy and Dating – Why it Matters (Bear With Me)

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For years, I’ve wondered why my love life is great in many foreign countries I’ve lived in (and some U.S. cities), to where one night out can result in a full schedule of dates for the month, and inevitably a girlfriend (or two, or three). But at home in sunny LA my love life is […]

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What To Do After Your Seduction Strategies Actually Work

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Even in 2017, there is no shortage of seduction strategies and tips all over the web. The average guy who needs help in this area often requires a lot of work to fix, especially as many men encounter “analysis paralysis” where they spend 90% of their time reading pickup theories and maybe 10% or less […]

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Competitive Dating Could be Ruining Your Love Life

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Most people who care about their success in life are competitive. In fact, lot of things we do are competitive in some way. Meeting women may also be a competitive sport for you, whether you’re aware of this or not.

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The Best Mindset for Meeting Women

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There’s so much pressure on the modern man when it comes to meeting women. Everybody has an opinion about it these days, and the opinions are always changing. So the question becomes: what’s working lately? Here are some thoughts.

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5 Ways to Stay Young and Keep Your Vitality

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Getting old is optional. It’s not so much about our bodies getting a little more wrinkly, as it is our mindsets change; sometimes for the worst. Guys having middle-age crises annoy me. It’s like they release they’ve lost their youth / vitality, and they rapidly try to make up for it in a panic, instead […]

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Is the No Fap Movement Something to Try? An Objective Analysis

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By now, you’ve probably heard of the “No Fap” movement, which started on Reddit and has become a challenge for young men everywhere to abstain from masturbation. The movement has a big mix of pros and cons. There are some definite advantages to “No Fap” that I’ll outline. But, there’s also some problems with the […]

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Is “Game” and Pickup Artistry Hurting Men Everywhere?

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If there was ever a topic I spent some time feeling conflicted about, it’s this one. On this very site, I allude to some level of the “game” paradigm; and unfortunately it’s incorporated (at least on a subtle level) in some of the Developed Man books written by myself or contributors to this site. This […]

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A Response to James Fell, the Good Men Project, and the Myth of the Alpha Male

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Every now and then an article comes along that leaves me no choice but to hop on the saddle and write about it.

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Online Dating Heralds the Apocalypse for Western Men

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I’ll preface this by saying I have no affiliation with the site “Sluthate” which appears to be another misguided offshoot of “PUAHate” – which was shut down after one of their members, a guy we know named Elliot Rodger, went on a killing spree in southern California.

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The 6 Types of Oneitis

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Maybe you have heard the term “Oneitis” before. This is the natural tendency to get caught up on one girl. It obviously affects both sexes, as well. I was with a girl recently who described her mind as being completely invaded by a bad experience with a guy she was starting to date. “He started […]

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How to Develop From a Pickup Artist to a Real Seducer

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(The following is a guest post by Sebastian at Global Seducers). What do you think when you hear the expressions Pickup Artist and Seducer? You probably think that both of these expressions describe men who approach women on a regular basis, who have many dates and who end up in bed with a lot of […]

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Why Chemistry is Not Sexual Attraction

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Many people, especially women, mistake chemistry for sexual attraction. Have you ever had a woman say to you, “We just don’t have chemistry together, sorry”? The truth is that sexual attraction and chemistry are two different animals. Attraction is, explicitly speaking, if you make her wet. Chemistry is how well you get along with somebody […]

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The Truth About What Women Want (It’s Wladimir Klitschko)

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Wladimir Klitschko is a Ukrainian boxer who looks like a villain in a 90s Steven Segal action flick. There’s a lot of buzz about him lately because he recently spawned a baby with beautiful actress Hayden Panettiere. I found myself reading this headline and wondering how often we see highest status females, like Hayden, going […]

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