How Generalizing is Stupid Behavior (Response to Return of Kings)

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What does it take to be a good man? A lot of things, but most importantly it’s about avoiding certain behaviors that harm you.

There’s a natural human tendency to create a false equation. It’s like an error in our operating systems; a mental glitch that was never fixed by nature. It goes: observation = generalization.

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Huge Mistakes From Yesteryear’s PUA Movement

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I don’t think anybody likes the term “PUA” (pickup artist) anymore because it’s ridiculous. But, I still see guys using PUA principles in an effort to become better men or cure long romantic dry spells. Some of these behaviors still crop up even if the “PUA” culture is mostly on the way out. In this […]

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Brave Guys Needed for YouTube Reality TV Show

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  Hello, Developed Man readers, My friend (and contributor to our sister site, Developed Life), Arturo has undertaken a project that involves exploring cultural differences in dating standards. This will be done through a funny YouTube series that will debut late this year: American Love in Prague.

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The Terrible Temptation of Bragging

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First of all, I have no idea who this is a picture of. He was on the Wikimedia creative commons page for the keyword “arrogant” and he definitely looks the part. However, I have to offer my utmost apologies to whoever this guy is who I just made into the personification of a “bragger”. One […]

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A Complete Guide to Approach Anxiety

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I promised I would write about approach anxiety one of these days. So, we’ve finally arrived at that point. This term is rooted squarely in the rise of the seduction and “advice for meeting girls” community; but may have existed before then in the world of cold-sales.

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6 High Quality Behaviors That Men Must Try to Obtain

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Let’s face it, the world is kind of a shitty place sometimes. And, the reason is largely because of the people who inhabit it. Fortunately, there’s good news: a few personality changes and philosophical reconsiderations can create a new chapter for any man; immediately creating a brighter future for everybody.

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Men and Women Are Equal, End of Story

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Few things can hurt an interaction more than gender superiority and gender inferiority complexes. This can occur among those who feel that the opposite gender is to blame for their problems in life , or among those who believe their own gender is either superior or inferior, placing the opposite sex on either a pedestal […]

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Networking Tips for Successful Guys

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Every guy has dreams; as it’s part of our masculine instinct to achieve forward momentum, obtain impossible goals, and climb to the top of the pyramid. However, most of us have problems realizing our full potential. Most likely the thing that’s really holding you back is that your network of potential partners, supporters, friends and […]

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On Sealing the Deal and Avoiding the Friend Zone

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    Note: this is part of chapter 5 of my book “The Ultimate Men’s Dating Advice Book”. If you’d like to read the entire program, you can view it off the Amazon website with one click (and a couple of bucks) via this link. There’s a lot of reasons why guys tend to get […]

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How to Keep a Girl Interested With 5 Techniques

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Are you in that nebulous zone where you’re “sort of” dating a girl? For instance, you’ve gotten a little hot and heavy in the past, but your little relationship seems to constantly wane in and out of existence. This is a fairly common situation, and it leaves many guys (and girls alike) suffering from bouts […]

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How to End a Relationship and Turn the Experience Positive

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In my experience, everything from the fear of intimacy to long-term dry spells can be attributed to the fear of the breakup process. While the best way to avoid a nasty breakup is the preemptive approach by honestly communicating long-term goals, and never lead a person on—inevitably, the situation may still occur when you have […]

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Attracting Women with Non Verbal Communication

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    There’s a huge misconception about socialization, non-verbal communication, and the attraction process . Since people first started analyzing the skill of interaction as an art or science, using concepts like neuro-linguistic programming and evolutionary psychology, there’s seemingly always been a camp of people who believe “what” you say is just as important as […]

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The Seven Deadly Limiting Beliefs

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  The limiting belief is a term that has entered common vernacular. It is a belief that restricts one’s spirit and persists regardless of whether any evidence exists to support it. They are often creations of the negative subconscious, or they are the reinforced behaviors of a society with broken values. Nonetheless, we all have […]

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The Power of Sexual Tension

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Many poets say there is no greater feeling than the race of one’s heartbeat as one draws toward a kiss. I tend to agree. Perhaps the addictive nature of sexuality is less the physical act and more the feeling of temptation, curiosity, and anticipation that makes your heart jump out of your chest shortly before […]

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How to Behave Around the Most Beautiful Women

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Every man must learn how to behave around the most beautiful women in the world. This is easily where the majority of guys fall short, and we desperately need some education on this matter. Really beautiful women are subject to a massive influx of unnecessary status, attention, jealousy, opportunities and calamities from all walks of […]

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