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In my experience, everything from the fear of intimacy to long-term dry spells can be attributed to the fear of the breakup process. While the best way to avoid a nasty breakup is the preemptive approach by honestly communicating long-term goals, and never lead a person on—inevitably, the situation may still occur when you have to “cut ties” for a while.
Many poets say there is no greater feeling than the race of one’s heartbeat as one draws toward a kiss. I tend to agree. Perhaps the addictive nature of sexuality is less the physical act and more the feeling of temptation, curiosity, and anticipation that makes your heart jump out of your chest shortly before the tension is released. The important thing about sexual tension is to recognize its effects, and understand its power. Continue Reading
Few things can hurt an interaction more than gender superiority and gender inferiority complexes. This can occur among those who feel that the opposite gender is to blame for their problems in life, or among those who believe their own gender is either superior or inferior, placing the opposite sex on either a pedestal of worship; or kicking them to the mud.Continue Reading
The limiting belief is a term that has entered common vernacular. It is a belief that restricts one’s spirit and persists regardless of whether any evidence exists to support it. They are often creations of the negative subconscious, or they are the reinforced behaviors of a society with broken values. Nonetheless, we all have limiting beliefs that pry at our hopes and ambitions. These are the seven deadliest to beware of:
Do looks matter? Spoiler: Yes, looks do matter. A lot. On both sides of the gender spectrum.
This is a popular topic of debate. Some people in the pickup artist / dating coach world have sold the idea that looks don’t really matter. The reason is because this a great way to sell the idea that anybody can become a Don Juan with ten “perfect 10” girlfriends in their apartment harem.
Early last year I started to explore the idea of being a dating coach and a life-coach as a profession versus just a hobby. It’s extremely rewarding, because I see it as helping people with self-empowerment. I got into this stuff back when I was a college sophomore and it had a great positive effect on my life. I feel like it’s what society needs.
There’s a huge misconception about socialization, non-verbal communication, and the attraction process. Since people first started analyzing the skill of interaction as an art or science, using concepts like neuro-linguistic programming and evolutionary psychology, there’s seemingly always been a camp of people who believe “what” you say is just as important as “how” you say it.
Every guy has dreams; as it’s part of our masculine instinct to achieve forward momentum, obtain impossible goals, and climb to the top of the pyramid. However, most of us have problems realizing our full potential.
Most likely the thing that’s really holding you back is that your network of potential partners, supporters, friends and allies is too thin. To enhance your odds of success, it’s important to learn the networking tips of the masters.
I’ve spent considerable time in my life studying the characteristics of the 10% of men who have the greatest amount of sexual choice. The topic fascinates me because it’s like a segment of the population possess superpowers, elusive to the rest of us. These people rarely understand themselves, as they are born with inherent traits, unique to their personalities, and too evanescent to contain in a bottle and package for other people’s enjoyment.Continue Reading
Wow, this is a big topic. But, it’s a cornerstone of self-development. Many fields have a “hard problem” to contend with. Medical science, for instance, sees consciousness as a “hard problem” because it’s extremely hard to reduce sentient awareness based on brain function.Continue Reading
Toxic femininity is the ability for a woman to send an innocent person off in handcuffs, or to the guillotine, while she herself is lauded with praise. In short, its female powers of manipulation and cunning bent toward selfish and malicious intent.
We hear feminists complain of toxic masculinity. And maybe there is such a thing among men who think Scarface is a legitimate role model and physical violence an acceptable course of action when you don’t get your way. However, actual toxic masculinity feels far less prevalent to me unless you go into the Hood or involve yourself with a biker gang.
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As promised in my article the other day, I am going to talk more about the dreaded “friend zone”, how to escape friend zone territory, and most importantly how to eliminate needy “orbiter” behavior. Continue Reading
When people ask me, “Cyrus, what is your main sticking point with women?” I give them a mouthful: my archetypal dangerous male persona is lacking.” That’s a lot to deal with, so let’s try to unpack it.
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Meeting other humans is a complex subject. One of the greatest mistakes men make is being unaware of their energy (which is another way of saying personality, mood, desires, and ambitions we put out to the world.) What occurs is that like-minds, obviously, attract.
Probably everything you think you know about “game” is wrong. That is if your experience is only cursory level information via popular companies like RSD and their endless YouTube videos.
How to End a Relationship and Turn the Experience Positive
The Power of Sexual Tension
Men and Women Are Equal, End of Story
The Seven Deadly Limiting Beliefs
Do Looks Matter? The Fourth Factor
The Challenge of Modern Dating Coaches (Response to Jezebel)
Attracting Women with Non Verbal Communication
Networking Tips for Successful Guys
Sexual Virtues: How to be Mysterious
How to be Authentic While Adapting Your Personality