Spiritual Philosophy and Dating – Why it Matters (Bear With Me)

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For years, I’ve wondered why my love life is great in many foreign countries I’ve lived in (and some U.S. cities), to where one night out can result in a full schedule of dates for the month, and inevitably a girlfriend (or two, or three). But at home in sunny LA my love life is […]

What To Do After Your Seduction Strategies Actually Work

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Even in 2017, there is no shortage of seduction strategies and tips all over the web. The average guy who needs help in this area often requires a lot of work to fix, especially as many men encounter “analysis paralysis” where they spend 90% of their time reading pickup theories and maybe 10% or less […]

The 6 Types of Oneitis

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Maybe you have heard the term “Oneitis” before. This is the natural tendency to get caught up on one girl. It obviously affects both sexes, as well. I was with a girl recently who described her mind as being completely invaded by a bad experience with a guy she was starting to date. “He started […]

Men and Women Are Equal, End of Story

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Few things can hurt an interaction more than gender superiority and gender inferiority complexes. This can occur among those who feel that the opposite gender is to blame for their problems in life , or among those who believe their own gender is either superior or inferior, placing the opposite sex on either a pedestal […]

On Sealing the Deal and Avoiding the Friend Zone

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Note: this is part of chapter 5 of my book “The Ultimate Men’s Dating Advice Book”. If you’d like to read the entire program, you can view it off the Amazon website with one click (and a couple of bucks) via this link. There’s a lot of reasons why guys tend to get friend-zoned, and […]

How to Keep a Girl Interested With 5 Techniques

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Are you in that nebulous zone where you’re “sort of” dating a girl? For instance, you’ve gotten a little hot and heavy in the past, but your little relationship seems to constantly wane in and out of existence. This is a fairly common situation, and it leaves many guys (and girls alike) suffering from bouts […]

How to End a Relationship and Turn the Experience Positive

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In my experience, everything from the fear of intimacy to long-term dry spells can be attributed to the fear of the breakup process. While the best way to avoid a nasty breakup is the preemptive approach by honestly communicating long-term goals, and never lead a person on—inevitably, the situation may still occur when you have […]

Obvious Dating Mistakes You’re Probably Still Making

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The funny thing about learning how to succeed with the ladies is that our memory recognition is extremely bad. My theory is that it relates to left-brain, right-brain relations. Logically, when we hear good dating advice, our left-brain processes it and it sounds like a great idea. However, once our emotional right-brain takes over, all […]

The Real Reasons for Being Rejected by a Girl

To be rejected by a girl is not a fun experience. Nobody likes rejection, because nobody wants to be reminded, directly or indirectly, of inferiority. This is the one human element that seems to cause the most damage, enough so that children rejected from an early age by peers or parents often grow up to […]

Get Out of Friend Zone – The Virtues of Lovers vs. Friends

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In a future article, I will talk about some myths of the “friend zone”, and why it’s not necessarily THAT bad to be a woman’s “just a friend”, at least not as bad as a lot of dating coaches claim it is. But for now, I want to talk about the core differences between friends […]

How to Ask Her Out on a Date

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“Oh my God, Sarah at work…I’m so in love with her, I mean, I really like her. So I need to just ask her out, right? That’s what works in the movies. But, I don’t know how to ask her out. Oh, God, please help me, Internet!” Actually, before you go down this grim path, […]