How to Flirt: Why it’s Really a Mindset

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[Image Credit: Phil Date | Dreamstime Stock Photos] Flirting is probably one of the greatest mysteries of the modern world. What is it? How do you do it? It would seem everybody has a different conception about how to flirt, and what it even is. Opinions range from technical descriptions (“maintain eye contact and smile”) […]

The Demonstration of Higher Value – A New Guide

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Here’s an acronym you may have heard before: a “DHV”, or a demonstration of higher value. On the topic of seduction, this was (and continues to be) a big deal. It’s the idea of implanting certain “spikes” into your conversation to show your high-quality characteristics without directly stating them—which would be bragging. Most famously, a […]

A Look at Nice Guys Who Are Really Assholes

A lot has been written about “nice guys”—from the famous Robert Glover book “No More Mr. Nice Guy” to countless lectures by top relationship coaches like David Wygant, David DeAngelo and plenty of others. The consensus is that “nice guys” are not really so nice at all and that they tend to have manipulative tendencies. […]

A Guy’s Guide to Handling Conflict

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In my life I’ve noticed two extremes: men who compulsively avoid conflict, and those who seem to seek it out. Obviously, neither strategy is very good. For this article, I’d like to talk about the types of conflict we encounter in our day-to-day lives, and how deal with each situation. This way, you’ll be better […]

The Real Reasons for Being Rejected by a Girl

To be rejected by a girl is not a fun experience. Nobody likes rejection, because nobody wants to be reminded, directly or indirectly, of inferiority. This is the one human element that seems to cause the most damage, enough so that children rejected from an early age by peers or parents often grow up to […]

Sexual Virtues: How to be Mysterious

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I’ve spent considerable time in my life studying the characteristics of the 10% of men who have the greatest amount of sexual choice. The topic fascinates me because it’s like a segment of the population possess superpowers, elusive to the rest of us. These people rarely understand themselves, as they are born with inherent traits, […]

Escape Friend Zone Part 2: Orbiters

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As promised in my article the other day, I am going to talk more about the dreaded “friend zone”, how to escape friend zone territory, and most importantly how to eliminate needy “orbiter” behavior. In addition, I wanted to mention how I’ve had a lot of feedback about the “Dark Virtues” mentioned on my previous […]

Am I Creepy? Five Signs You Are

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There is no worse thing for a man to be called than “creepy”, because it’s a representation of just about everything we don’t want to be: anti-social, weird, a stalker, unattractive, and so forth. Unfortunately this word gets tossed around a LOT, especially by catty, immature girls—or guys who are trying to step on you. […]

Five Attractive Qualities of Men

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Here are five attractive qualities that can instantly turn your luck around with women, plus improve general success in life. Sure, these topics probably go a bit more deep than this article, but this is a good place to start. 5. Outcome Independence Everybody has tried to figure this one out, including ancient and modern […]

How to Ask Her Out on a Date

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“Oh my God, Sarah at work…I’m so in love with her, I mean, I really like her. So I need to just ask her out, right? That’s what works in the movies. But, I don’t know how to ask her out. Oh, God, please help me, Internet!” Actually, before you go down this grim path, […]