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In my experience, everything from the fear of intimacy to long-term dry spells can be attributed to the fear of the breakup process. While the best way to avoid a nasty breakup is the preemptive approach by honestly communicating long-term goals, and never lead a person on—inevitably, the situation may still occur when you have to “cut ties” for a while.
As promised in my article the other day, I am going to talk more about the dreaded “friend zone”, how to escape friend zone territory, and most importantly how to eliminate needy “orbiter” behavior. Continue Reading
For years, I’ve wondered why my love life is great in many foreign countries I’ve lived in (and some U.S. cities), to where one night out can result in a full schedule of dates for the month, and inevitably a girlfriend (or two, or three). Continue Reading
Even in 2019, there is no shortage of seduction strategies and tips all over the web. The average guy who needs help in this area often requires a lot of work to fix, especially as many men encounter “analysis paralysis” where they spend 90% of their time reading pickup theories and maybe 10% or less of their time talking to girls (it should be the other way around). Continue Reading
Maybe you have heard the term “Oneitis” before. This is the natural tendency to get caught up on one girl.Continue Reading
The funny thing about learning how to succeed with the ladies is that our memory recognition is extremely bad. My theory is that it relates to left-brain, right-brain relations.Continue Reading
Throughout your life, you may have noticed how the “bad boy” always gets the dates. In high school, the rocker or buff athlete with the personality of an alligator could steal that pretty girl you’d been crushing on.Continue Reading
To be rejected by a girl is not a fun experience. Nobody likes rejection, because nobody wants to be reminded, directly or indirectly, of inferiority. This is the one human element that seems to cause the most damage, enough so that children rejected from an early age by peers or parents often grow up to develop a multitude of psychological disorders.Continue Reading
In a future article, I will talk about some myths of the “friend zone”, and why it’s not necessarily THAT bad to be a woman’s “just a friend”, at least not as bad as a lot of dating coaches claim it is. Continue Reading
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There’s a lot of reasons why guys tend to get friend-zoned, and it’s not always about what you think.Continue Reading
Are you in that nebulous zone where you’re “sort of” dating a girl? For instance, you’ve gotten a little hot and heavy in the past, but your little relationship seems to constantly wane in and out of existence. This is a fairly common situation, and it leaves many guys (and girls alike) suffering from bouts of insecurity as they try to keep the flame alit. Here’s a quick guide for those who are wondering about how to keep a girl interested.Continue Reading
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The Challenge of Modern Dating Coaches (Response to Jezebel)
Attracting Women with Non Verbal Communication
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Sexual Virtues: How to be Mysterious
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