A lot has been written about “nice guys”—from the famous Robert Glover book “No More Mr. Nice Guy” to countless lectures by top relationship coaches like David Wygant, David DeAngelo and plenty of others. The consensus is that “nice guys” are not really so nice at all and that they tend to have manipulative tendencies. Continue Reading
Archives for October 2018
The Signs She’s Interested in You – The Ultimate Guide
There is a clear definition of failing at “game”, or not living up to the proper standards of a man. It does not involve getting laid X number of times, having the most beautiful girlfriend in your city, or other unattainable, outcome-dependent goals.Continue Reading
7 Bullshit Ideas That Hold Men Back
Uncertainty is the thing that separates an effective lifestyle from one of trepidation and inaction.Continue Reading
A Guy’s Guide to Handling Conflict
In my life I’ve noticed two extremes: men who compulsively avoid conflict, and those who seem to seek it out. Obviously, neither strategy is very good. Continue Reading
The Real Reasons for Being Rejected by a Girl
To be rejected by a girl is not a fun experience. Nobody likes rejection, because nobody wants to be reminded, directly or indirectly, of inferiority. This is the one human element that seems to cause the most damage, enough so that children rejected from an early age by peers or parents often grow up to develop a multitude of psychological disorders.Continue Reading
The Benefit of Fear – It’s Not Always Bad
Many self help programs emphasize the power of “positive feelings”. I don’t disavow this. Positive thinking has made a big difference in my life. But, far too often so-called negative feelings are given a bad rap.Continue Reading
A Major Sticking Point: Male Insecurity
The sooner you can free yourself from the chains of male insecurity, the sooner you can begin to enjoy life without the nagging bondage that accompanies almost every action performed by an insecure man. This is the first article of the Developed Man project, and it’s the first important topic that every man should try to master.Continue Reading
Get Out of Friend Zone – The Virtues of Lovers vs. Friends
In a future article, I will talk about some myths of the “friend zone”, and why it’s not necessarily THAT bad to be a woman’s “just a friend”, at least not as bad as a lot of dating coaches claim it is. Continue Reading
On Sealing the Deal and Avoiding the Friend Zone
young man kissing a woman on a sunny day
There’s a lot of reasons why guys tend to get friend-zoned, and it’s not always about what you think.Continue Reading
Am I Creepy? Five Signs You Are
There is no worse thing for a man to be called than “creepy”, because it’s a representation of just about everything we don’t want to be: anti-social, weird, a stalker, unattractive, and so forth. Unfortunately this word gets tossed around a LOT, especially by catty, immature girls—or guys who are trying to step on you.Continue Reading
Five Attractive Qualities of Men
Here are five attractive qualities that can instantly turn your luck around with women, plus improve general success in life. Sure, these topics probably go a bit more deep than this article, but this is a good place to start.Continue Reading
How to Ask Her Out On a Date
“Oh my God, Sarah at work…I’m so in love with her, I mean, I really like her. So I need to just ask her out, right? That’s what works in the movies. But, I don’t know how to ask her out. Oh, God, please help me, Internet!” Continue Reading
How to Keep a Girl Interested With 5 Techniques
Are you in that nebulous zone where you’re “sort of” dating a girl? For instance, you’ve gotten a little hot and heavy in the past, but your little relationship seems to constantly wane in and out of existence. This is a fairly common situation, and it leaves many guys (and girls alike) suffering from bouts of insecurity as they try to keep the flame alit. Here’s a quick guide for those who are wondering about how to keep a girl interested.Continue Reading
